During the recent Abilene City Council meeting on January 23, 2025, a powerful testimony from a former resident of the Bridal Discipleship Home highlighted serious allegations of abuse and misconduct within the organization. Bambi Pew, who spoke on behalf of herself and other former residents, described their experiences in the program as traumatic and abusive, likening it to a cult.
Pew recounted the emotional and physical toll the program took on its participants, stating that they were subjected to ridicule and emotional manipulation. She emphasized that many individuals entered the program seeking help, only to find themselves in a situation that left them worse off than before. Pew's testimony included harrowing accounts of individuals being forced to perform degrading tasks and being isolated from their families, all while being led to believe they were serving a higher purpose.
The former resident called for justice for those who suffered under the program, including the families of individuals who had died while in the home. She specifically mentioned the tragic case of Matty, who was murdered in his sleep at the men's home, and urged council members to take action against the organization, which she claimed perpetuated a cycle of trauma and abuse.
Pew's passionate plea resonated with many in attendance, raising urgent questions about the oversight and accountability of such organizations in the community. The council's response to these allegations remains to be seen, but the meeting underscored the need for a thorough examination of the practices within the Bridal Discipleship Home and similar institutions.
As the community grapples with these serious concerns, the council's next steps will be crucial in addressing the issues raised and ensuring the safety and well-being of all residents.